Hey party people! Hey fam! It’s Friday and I’m in a singing and funny mood on today. Today is a simply wonderful day to be alive! So on this morning I was thinking about relationships and in my life I have been in some very unhealthy relationships. But some people have had great experiences in relationships in their life. So let’s dive in…
On yesterday I was listening to Antonio T. Smith and he mentioned two things love and light.. pure love is healing and light is bright and takes up the room.. So, we’re you raised by love or light?
So, Antonio’s life has been very troublesome…he has at this point been homeless from 6 -15 years old. When you are homeless, you must have a narcissistic attitude. It’s not about love but survival. So, his relationships at that time were terrible and didn’t get better until he was 25..What about you?
So, a quote I would use to describe Antonio’s life at this point was “By any means necessary “. But at 25 he lost everything, and here we are at age 39 and he does value relationships. He believes blessings only come from people. God blesses through people so how are you being a blessing?
So, now his attitude has completely changed, and he also is still a bit narcissistic but his motives must be correct. God can use that to his glory. It’s so important that your heart be in the right place..So do you have healthy relationships?
Love this quote!
I do have pretty healthy relationships now. I grew up in a somewhat dysfunctional family, so I am reparenting myself and learning healthier thought patterns and behaviors through my support group, Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families.
So, how long have you been in this group?
I just started in March 2021, so nearly 5 months now!
I have healthy relationships in my love. I do a good job of sifting out the garbage most times.
Well continue to speak to the king inside of him…
Relationships can be tough. Never easy to deal with people who won’t change their toxic ways.
But when u meet someone that will that is a blessing