August 29, 2021

How to love yourself

Heyyy fam!! Boy this week has been whooo but I’ve been doing some thinking…as always. But one thing I was thinking about was love, no not the romantic kind but how do we love ourselves? Let’s talk!

So, please tell me one thing you love about yourself? But how to love yourself can be a difficult task, I remember as a child I was always told how beautiful I was, that I was a great child but at school I was told that I’m ugly, very dark, fat and I wore glasses…so eventually I started to believe what the kids said over what my mommy said.

So, how can you learn to love yourself?? Here’s some tips for you.

1. Stop negative self talk- that is talking down on yourself, you have internal discussions about how you aren’t this or that. Stop that! I’ve had to stop that myself. You are a wonderful person and you can accomplish anything.

2. Believe in yourself- I talked to someone that was once homeless but always knew he would be successful. Some people won’t understand you and that’s okay it’s not for them. But Believe in yourself! You are greatness. Believing in yourself doesn’t make you selfish but it does make you an overcomer.

3. Get to know yourself- In a relationship with people we spend time with them and learn about them, so why not do that with ourselves. Something I used to do was go on a day out with myself, go to a movie, go to my favorite restaurant and just chill with myself. We must know who we are.

At this stage of my life, I can honestly say that I truly live myself. Do I always have it together? Noooo but the good days outweigh the bad. I hope that if you don’t love yourself now that you will. You are a wonderful person and if no one else tells you then I will…I love you!

Be blessed!

Sunshine blogger

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  1. Ruth August 30, 2021 at 11:52 am - Reply

    Great reminder that we need to be kinder to ourselves

  2. Audrey August 31, 2021 at 5:03 pm - Reply

    Such a good reminder!! Love is so powerful, especially self love!

  3. Katherine September 3, 2021 at 11:14 am - Reply

    Believe in yourself, I love that one! But it’s hard to remember, put in practice sometimes. Thanks for the reminder

    • Sunshine blogger September 3, 2021 at 11:41 am - Reply

      Change starts within you, so thanks for commenting sis!

  4. Cyndi September 3, 2021 at 12:13 pm - Reply

    Mastering self talk is truly life changing. Thanks for sharing.

  5. Mariham September 3, 2021 at 1:12 pm - Reply

    I needed this today! Thank you

  6. Stephanie September 8, 2021 at 2:06 am - Reply

    I’ve struggled with these things, but am working on getting better at them. And to answer your question: One thing I love about myself is my perseverance. No matter how many times I may fall, I always get back up.

    • Sunshine blogger September 8, 2021 at 11:23 am - Reply

      Well even in the midst of struggling you can hold on to what you know to be true about yourself…having perseverance is a very admirable trait. You will find more things you love about yourself

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